No One is Special!
Yes,
you read it right. "No one is special in this World". Everyone is the
same irrespective of their gender, complexion and anything else. And the most
important thing is that "You are not Special” either. No one gives a Fck
about you. It might hurt you but it’s true.
We
spend almost one-third of our life thinking about what other people think about
the way we talk, the way we walk, the way we look, the partner we hook. But,
the truth is that no one cares about you. It is just you who is wasting your
time in thinking what other people might be thinking about you.
Here’s
a popular quote by Cooley:
“I am what I think you think I am”
Just
read that again. It has a very deep meaning in it. It says that I am not what I
think I am nor the one who you think I am. But I am the one what I think you
think I am. This clearly tells us that how much we think about the opinion and
thought process of others ignoring our own happiness.
I
don’t know why do people care about the opinion of others? If you think you are
looking good today then yes you do. Don’t let some creepy person’s opinion
destroy your mood.
There’s
another great quote which says:
“People will hate you, shake you but how you see your self is what
actually makes you”
This
clearly states that self-love is the most important thing in life. Your life
will become completely different when you will start loving yourselves and have
zero expectations with others. By this, I’m not saying that you should stop
loving others. But the thing is that does that love affects your self-love? And
if the answer is Yes then you should take a step back because at some point of
time you won’t find that love as much strong as it was before. But self-love
always remains the same [Generally it increases with time].
Never Compare
One
should never compare himself/herself to others. Comparing either makes us feel
superior to others or inferior to others. Never forget You are not special. Why
I am saying this is because when you think that you are special then you start
to care more about other people than yourselves. You start to think that your
actions might hurt the feelings of others. The question here is “Why does
someone care about the feelings of others rather than his own”?
The
answer might be LOVE or something like that. BULLSHIT. The definition of love
never says that you should forget yourself just for the sake of getting
attention and affection from a person. Love is something which helps you to
grow with someone who is there to pick you up when you fall. If you are not
growing in a relationship and you are sadder and more depressed despite your
full efforts to keep the relationship going then you might be doing wrong. You
should take a moment to think Why are you doing this? Are you happy with this?
Is it worth it?
If
the answer to any of the above questions is NO then you should Move On. There
is no point to stay at a place where you do not belong to.
This
does not only belong to the relationships. This belongs to everything. Every place
where you go to. Even with your so-called friends. If you do not feel valued in
friendship then just move on and make new friends. The world is full of good
people who truly understand your feelings and respect your efforts.
And
always remember that if you are not among the correct people then Your friends
might be your biggest enemies.
Purpose of this Article
The
main purpose of this article is to tell you that you have got only one crazy
life. If you spend this in thinking what other people will think of you then
you will not achieve anything big in life. People and opinions Come and Go. But
life comes only once. Either you can Live it or let other people Live it for
You!
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